Although I’ve lived in Raleigh, N.C, longer than anywhere else (30 years this fall!), I consider myself a native Chicagoan.
My years in South Bend, Bloomington and Fort Wayne, Indiana were essential; I made some of my most enduring friendships in the Hoosier state, and it was there I met the man who is now my husband.
But if I’m pricked by the blade of nostalgia, Chicago is the blood that spills.
Case in point: After a workout, a locker-room acquaintance and I chatted about the possibility of a forecast “wintry mix.” In Raleigh, this means low temperatures at or below 30 and the chance of a rain/snow/sleet mixture, even with no accumulation.
We laughed as we contrasted the concern with our experiences of winter where we came from.
I will admit I’ve never seen a single snowstorm as massive as the 20-inch-plus storm we got in Raleigh in January 2000. That, however, truly was once in a lifetime, and it didn’t last long.
Contrast that with the snows of winter 1978-79 that ushered Jane Byrne into the mayor’s seat in Chicago. That snow stayed on the ground for weeks, even months. And most of that time, we were expected to go to school – the plows moved, the buses ran, and it was our job to head to class. I was a high school sophomore then.
Now, as a high school counselor, I laugh when students and colleagues alike in Raleigh muse whether we’ll get a snow day at the hint of flurries.
Here are a half-dozen other ways the Windy City sticks with me:
The Food
Not just the pizza, although I do love it.
But the Chicago pizza I love is the cracker-thin, tavern-style version I grew up with, not the world-renowned deep-dish that became more of a thing when I was in college.
Other must-haves: Chicago hot dogs (on the northwest side, we loved midway between Wolfy’s and Superdawg, so we’d alternate our dining experiences). Thin, crispy chocolate chip cookies from Heinemann’s bakeries (I was inconsolable when I heard they’d gone out of business). Italian-beef sandwiches. Kolaczki (delicious Polish jam-filled cookies) from a Milwaukee Avenue bakery.
Ann Sather’s cinnamon rolls (truly, Cinnabon is no competition). And, to cap things off, either Fannie May’s peppermint ice or the Frango mints you could always get at Carson Pirie Scott. (You can still get them, but it sounds New York, and thus wrong, to say “at Macy’s.”)
The Cubs
I grew up on the North Side; my South Side friends would substitute The White Sox.
Going to Wrigley Field was always fun, even for a non-sports fan like me.
I learned from the Cubs not just to appreciate baseball more than any other sport, but also to learn how to be patient. One of my great joys in life was knowing the Cubs won the World Series a few years before my dad’s passing.
The Music
For me, not so much the artists who came from the city –but the amazing stations that played their music.
Acts like the Buckinghams, the Chi-Lites and Southern expat Tyrone Davis, in addition to the band named for it.
Whether you listened to soul on WVON or WJPC, country on WJJD or WMAQ, easy listening on WIND, news radio on WBBM or Top 40 on WLS or WCFL, you could find a place to call home on AM radio in the early to mid-‘70s.
Even when I was in Pennsylvania visiting family during the summer, I’d tune in my portable AM/FM radio at night and feel ready to fall asleep once I heard the night shift on WLS.
The Homegrown TV Shows
It’s not the networks’ mainstays that I’d pay to stream if I could, but the Chicago-specific oddities, most of which aired on WGN in the years before it became a cable superstation.
The morning show of Ray Rayner (which introduced me to the Irish Rovers’ “Unicorn” via visits from the Lincoln Park Zoo staff). The afternoon kiddie programming of “B.J. and the Dirty Dragon” (which admittedly sounds risqué today but was nothing of the sort). “Creature Features” (reruns of old monster movies) on Friday nights, with the theme music (Henry Mancini’s “Experiment in Terror”) still able to scare me.
And, of course, the lunchtime “Bozo’s Circus.”
It took years to get tickets to be in the “Bozo” studio audience. We made it a couple of times, and my sister got a picture with Bozo himself.
My brother and I had to settle for Ringmaster Ned and a couple of secondary clowns.
The expressways: My mom loves to tell how she knew I could read:
At least once a month, she and my dad would do the weekend drive from Gary, Indiana, where she grew up and her parents and foster-parents (all of whom we knew as our grandparents) lived.
At age four, I knew the exits in order from the Broadway exit in Gary to the Western Avenue exit in downtown Chicago. My dad figured maybe I’d memorized them. It was when I asked my mom what a “corporatio” was and pointed to a building with a burned-out “N” in its title that my dad had to acknowledge the truth.
Even today, as long as I have a great soundtrack going, I enjoy driving even in traffic on the Dan Ryan, the Edens, the Kennedy or Lake Shore Drive (not quite an expressway, but a great trip and – in the voices of Aliotta, Haynes and Jeremiah – a great song).
The architecture: Whether it’s going on a Wendella boat ride to see the classic downtown skyline, walking the streets of Oak Park to take in the work of Frank Lloyd Wright, or using a summer day to enjoy the Art Institute, Buckingham Fountain and the Taste of Chicago at Grant Park, it’s impossible to separate architecture from adventure.
As a kid, I loved the annual Grant Park Kite Fly, sponsored – of course – by radio station WIND. What a way to see the city and have fun!
Several years ago, my husband and I took a vacation to visit some old friends up north. I noticed he’d grown quiet on the drive back to our hotel. I asked him what he was thinking. He asked me whether I missed Chicago enough to want to move back.
Without a blink, I said, “No way. Where I am, with you, is where I want to be.”
I love Chicago and always will.
But there’s a difference between enjoying a look at the past and loving my life today.
Still, when I get a chance to listen to a Larry Lujack aircheck, pop a Frango mint in my mouth or see a Facebook post from a friend of five decades:
I get the best of both worlds.
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30 years is a lot of time invested in an area, so I understand the reluctance to break away from that history.
As for me, I’m plotting my escape! Currently, taking steps that will allow me to, eventually, blow this popsicle stand. If we don’t end up in Montreal, Philly would be a good option.
I’ve only been to Chicago once, not counting the airport, and I enjoyed my time there. I got some deep dish pizza from Lou Malnati’s, which was tasty, but it’s like a pizza-themed pot pie. Almost a separate species from pizza.
I’ve never heard of the tavern-style pizza, but Wikipedia tells me that it’s purchased by locals on Grubhub much more than deep dish options.
I also got some Chicago dogs, and they were quite tasty. I especially enjoyed them with a healthy dollop of…
….
……ketchup.
😊
You got me good.
I was ready for you to say, “pineapple.”
I should write an articles about the wonderful curiosity that is Japanese pizza toppings.
I’m there 100% with the ketchup, can’t stand mustard.
Pineapple though? I think it might just work – for my palate anyway. In the culture war to end all culture wars I’m on team Pineapple on a pizza. My wife and daughter may disagree but what do they know??
Oh, I’m definitely on team pineapple pizza. It’s not even worthy of discussion.
Now, mayonnaise and fish eggs? We can have that talk.
We can have the talk but it might be accompanied by the sound of me barfing.
Took the sound of retching right out of my mouth, JJ…. 🤢
I’m a Red Sox fan and I see they’re playing the Cubs at Wrigley this summer. Hmmmm….
I’ve been there twice but once was to play a gig, which is no way to see a city. The lovely Ms. Virgindog and I were there a couple years ago and loved it all: the food, the architecture, public transit that actually works.
But the most memorable part was a phone conversation we overheard on the train out to Oak Park. The young woman behind us was complaining to someone about having to go so far and take hours to make a delivery. The sentence I remember verbatim is, “What’s the point of selling drugs if you don’t make no money?”
Chicago is my kind of town.
This is awesome, Chuck!
I grew up in Kentucky, a place I have zero desire to return to (though I can get weirdly protective of the place at times).
But since then, I’ve been a rolling stone, a tumbleweed (my wife is a cachanilla from Baja, so we’re a good match). I’ve lived in a lot of places, but none have felt like home. So home is not a place for me; it’s my wife and son. And that’s a good place to be 😁.
I’m pretty sure we will move at least once or twice more before we settle down — if we ever do. And wherever we go, it’s all good.
For a number of years a group from my fantasy baseball league would get together and do a tour of stadiums. In 2007, we flew into St. Louis, drove to Chicago (Cubs/White Sox in Comiskey), then Wrigley field on June 26 for a Cubs-Rockies game.
It was the greatest game I’ve ever witnessed.
The Cubs blew an 8-3 lead in the ninth inning, but came back to win it in the bottom half…but that’s not what made it great.
As the Cubs’ closer Bob Howry was blowing the game, a drunk guy with a beer in each hand climbed over the railing at third base and ambled towards the pitching mound.
No one stopped him.
He got to Bob (who is 6’6″), by which time the entire stadium is silent and watching. He yells, “WHAT THE F*** ARE YOU DO-” at which point he was tackled by the police.
The crowd erupted, louder than I’ve ever heard a stadium cheer before.
Next 3 batters: groundout, groundout, strikeout. Howry got the win.
That’s so Chicago. Awesome!
That reads like the protester interrupting Avril Lavigne on stage at the Junos the other night, lol
Drunk guy should get credit for the save. He probably had the Rockies laughing so hard they couldn’t focus in the batter’s box.
I’ve never been to Chicago but your description of the food in particular has really whetted my appetite.
Glad to hear your pizza of choice is the thin kind. Totally with you on that one.
Can also relate to having the best of both worlds of the life you have in Raleigh and being able to enjoy the associations with your home town. Given the more compact nature of Britain it works out a lot easier for me to go back home, which is lucky as my dad and sister are still in the area. Gives me the opportunity for regular visits but acting like a tourist showing off the best of it to my wife and daughter while enjoying the benefits of life where I am now.
Many things will influence us in our formative years, but few things more so than our ‘hometown’. It’s very tribal, isn’t it? I’ve mentioned before how Reading PA was barely 10 miles away from where I grew up, but I never really associated with it, we never went into the city center itself, it was all Philly.
No need for me to repeat myself on those hometown memories. Moving to Orlando at 17 made zero impression on me (although the abundance of “y’all” around Gainesville in college has obviously stuck with me!). What do I miss about Florida? 24 hour grocery shopping and restaurants to accommodate the abundant non-first shift workers in the area. That’s pretty much it.
Moving to Northern VA was welcome, but got old pretty quick due to just how populated and busy it all is, especially for this country gal. As soon as I was offered my fed job 6 years ago and we could finally breathe a sigh of relief regarding job security, we knew exactly where we wanted to look for a forever home. Everything since that log cabin I grew up it has just been a temporary residence for me everwhere I’ve gone. Now, we found our home and for the first time we both feel home-home. We love WV, we love having the Blue Ridge Mountains separate us from metro DC, I love the adorable little historic towns here, I love that I can literally park in front of the courthouse, walk maybe 50 feet, do whatever business I need with county department folks, and leave inside of 5 minutes. I may be Keystone Stater by birth, but I fully embrace the Mountaineer life now. (MrDutch grew up in the northern panhandle of WV, so he was already set. 😁 )
Life is what you make of it, but your hometown contributed to make you you. Thanks for sharing your perspective of Cheek-a-go, Chuck!!!
This sounds both lovely and (for a major city mouse like me) low-key anxiety-inducing. Where are the too many people, places and things?! Walking 50 feet to get things done? What madness is this?
It’s funny, when we relocated out of FL, my new company put us up in corporate housing in a nice big apartment in Crystal City, overlooking the entrance to Reagan National Airport. I was giddy planespotting the whole month. We’d walk to the various restaurants in Crystal City (a part of Arlington, VA) constantly for dinner and a Harris Teeter grocery store was a block away. I got to knowing which EPA employees got to work at 6am because I essentially looked directly in their office window across the street.
I couldn’t wait to get out of there. It helped to reassure for both of us city life is NOT our thing. Y’all can have it. 😉 It was how I’d sum up FL – nice place to visit, wouldn’t want to live there!
I’m a Hoosier, having grown up north of Indy, but never ventured to Chicago till I was in College. Now my Dad and Stepmom live there, and we visit often. My dad has never loved Chicago. He likes to make fun of how dangerous it is. Downtown and the lakefront does have its charm, though. I can see why people love it. It’s the biggest city in America that I’ve ever been slightly connected with, so I always am happy when it is singled out as a world-class city along with the likes of NYC and LA.
By the way, the winter of 76-77 is worth mentioning. I don’t really remember it…my first winter I remember well was the blizzard of Jan 1978. But looking back on the records, January 1977 was incredibly cold. No winter since has even come close to it. I know we are in a period of general warming of the climate, but that winter stands as a reminder of just how anomalous individual years can be.
What is it with people from Chicago that they’re so happy to have been born there? I meet so many people who can’t wait to tell me they’re from Chicago and when I meet them, they’re living anywhere but Chicago.
See Link’s comment above. It’s heckin’ cold in Chicago!
Bonus points for heckin‘.
I like Dusty Baker. The Padres are my team, but I’ll root for anybody on the west coast. San Francisco was a surrogate for San Diego’s mediocrity. So when a Met, whose family’s house I can see from my backyard, hit a walk-off homerun in 2000, I didn’t know what to feel. I had a sense of humor about it. My cousins, holy crap, did not. So when Baker moved to Chicago, I became a contingent Cubs fan.
The world is weird. What is its origin story? Sometimes I wonder if it began in Game 6 of the 2003 National League Championship Series.
I was moderately happy initially when Chicago finally won it all in 2016. And that happiness increased when the organization made amends with the victim of a crazed sports mob.
And then Baker wins it all with the Astros. The Houston organization absorbs a lot of national scorn, but some of it, is warranted.
Thank you for giving me an excuse to comment on sports.
Αθλητισμός? Είναι όλα ελληνικά για μένα!
I’m being diplomatic.
A lot of people preferred one leader to another because he could write a horse shirtless.
I have a friend who believes in climate change, but not that it’s man-made. I’m not going to have any real world relationships if I stick to my beliefs.
In public, I water down my ideology. That’s why I’m having problems writing.
Really, is Hawaii secretly the Florida of the West? Well, regardless, it is a good thing to be diplomatic for the sake of relationships. Even when it involves sports…I guess…
If you saw a protest here on, you name it, and looked at both sides, you would be struck by how the composition of people are virtually identical.
Our daily gives a platform to K. Conklin. The moderator doesn’t mind if you insult him. But if you fact-check him, which is my style, your posts get erased. Because, as his number one minion chips in, that’s just your opinion. The minion exploits people’s disappointment over a telescope that didn’t get built on Mauna Kea to garner support for her group’s goal to get rid of the indigenous studies program at my alma mater.
Well, yeah, if you can’t be friendly with someone unless they share your beliefs on everything to the tiniest detail then you will have problems with actual relationships.
Thank you for sharing this Chuck, Chicago is one of the places I would like to visit someday, and your descriptions have helped a lot. I don’t care if its freezing there and I know that the weather can’t be compared to central Mexico, but I actually envy the relatives that have been able to travel to Chicago, and actually years ago an acquaintance of mine was supposedly going to live there for a year, but then she met someone, they got married and now they share a beautiful daughter.
Chicago native Michael Wilbon, then writing for The Washington Post, was the only member of the national press corps who saw Chaminade upset #1 Virginia. I was sad to hear about the passing of Cavaliers head coach Terry Holland. Classy guy. When asked about the shocking upset, Holland answered: “You can’t take anything away from their effort.” Source: UVA Today, 2/14/’18
Wonderful write-up of a place that I will always call home; however, I am from Rockford (90 miles NW of Chicago for those not familiar) and it took me approx. 30 years before I could say I was an official Chicagoan. Thanks to my college BFF, I was introduced to Chicago several years before and knew some of the best bits, primarily record shops (Wax Trax, 2nd Hand Tunes, Reckless, Gramaphone). My Partner grew-up in Chicago on the South Side and he is shocked when references to Ray Rainer, Creature Features, and other Chicago institutions go over my head. What can I say, Rockford did not have the budget and we got a guy called Mr. Moustache who painted pictures. I did listen to WLS and WCFL. Brant Miller is now a meteorologist on Chicago NBC TV and defies aging. I was unfamiliar with the LSD song until Guardians of the Galaxy. GASP! Partner and I are in DC now (and have completely lost our Midwest Winter Mojo) after 22 wonderful years in Chicago. Like a Woody Allen movie, the city and all of its wonders (and foibles) was a key character in our story. Perhaps a long-term return someday, but only during warmer months.
Lovely article. Nice work, sir!
Ok, “B.J. and the Dirty Dragon” gave me a raging case of the giggles. (And it needs to go on VDog’s band name list.)
Here’s the story on that show: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_BJ_and_Dirty_Dragon_Show
Thanks… Interesting to see that it eventually morphed into the nationally syndicated “Gigglesnort Hotel”, which (as an avid TV Guide reader from a young age) I remember seeing in the listings, although I don’t think I ever watched it.